Choosing And using Pheromone Cologne - The Non-chemist's Guide to Personal Chemistry
Have you ever met someone who appeared to have got 'that certain something', which 'radiated confidence' or even 'oozed sexiness'? What would it be like should you suddenly found your self more attractive and also appealing to be with, obtaining more positive attention from everybody a person work together together with each and every day? Just how much would you enjoy that kind of good alteration of your life?
That is what you can expect when you are using pheromones. But, are you afraid you need a degree in chemistry to comprehend these products? Well, you don't, because this can be a non-chemist's guide to personal chemistry. I will explain all you need to know so that you can have fun finding the magic formula that will take your sociable interactions to another level - right now!
What are Pheromones and How Would They Affect Others?
Think of them as fragrances that are designed not only to smell good, but also to affect people in a subtle and unconscious way - the same way you would be affected by being close to a very attractive person.
The kind of pheromone products you will decide to buy depends on the information you want to send. There are many formulations on the market, that can generally can be grouped according to their desired effect. According to this particular, they will fall into these kinds of groups: Sexual stimulants and attractants (make you more sexy) Warm and fluffy (make you more approachable, huggable, people would like to get close to you) Man of the house (dominant but not necessarily sexual) Trust in a bottle (create trust as well as connection along with associates of both sex)
That's right, although pheromone effects are more pronounced with members of the opposite sex, they do have a non-sexual relation to members of the same sex as well. The net effect is that people will perceive you as being more attractive and pleasant to be around in a number of ways.
And since the products mirror natural body chemistry, these tendencies are quite natural and unconscious on the part of those people who are affected. Some of the people you meet will be more 'tuned into' the pheromones. I have found that a lot of young women in particular are affected and attracted to the products. Nice to get in which kind of attention, isn't it?
By the Numbers
Here is how pheromones will continue to work for you: Let us assume that you are a woman that guys might rate 7 on their attractiveness scale. What would it be like for you if you are out of the blue perceived as a 8 or 8.5? What if you were a 5 and could suddenly be perceived as a 6.5 or 7?
Or, if you are a guy that is always 'just friends' together with women - what would it be like to out of the blue be perceived as sexier - someone they just felt compelled to hold, to touch and kiss? Maybe you already come across to the ladies as sexually aggressive - maybe too much so. Won't it's good youngster should be portray the trust, comfort, and warmth that lets them feel safer around you?
Can you imagine the difference this would make in your life? It might range from dramatic to subtle in order to not at all, depending on the particular person and interaction. But you know you will feel more confident, interesting and attractive and have lots more opportunities and choices in social situations.
What They Don't Do - a Reality Check
So, will people be driven to you like a magnet from across the room, or crowd around you in order to bask in your presence? Maybe, but not likely.
- Will every member of the opposite sex be hopelessly drawn to you?
- Not necessarily - some people just can't handle being around a very attractive person.
- Their reaction may be to 'freeze or flee' because you are just too hot to handle.
- Overall, a nice problem to have, not think?
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- Will the thing is that a dramatic improvement in your love life?
- Probably, but that is largely up to you.
- Yet, you will have plenty of opportunities to improve this using these products!
How They Affect You
One of the more interesting and unexpected effects will be the change in how you feel when you start using the products. Because the pheromones affect you at the same time and the same way they are affecting others, and you will find yourself feeling more attractive and appealing - not a bad side effects to have going into a social situation.
When Pheromones Go Wrong - Overdose?
Will it make a very sexy person sexier? There are situations where a little is good and a good deal is not as good. (Happens with regular fragrances, too, doesn't it?) If you already are a great 'alpha' male or female, adding pheromones to your chemistry may intimidate some members of the opposite sex or bring out aggressivenss in the members of the same sex as as they unconsciously react to the challenge you present.
Who Uses Them, that Should Use Them
By now you have figured out that pheromones are not just for dating and sexual attraction. You may already remember that psychological numerous studies have shown that attractive people are more successful in all areas of life.
Anyone who is in sales, or has a lot of public contact will benefit from using pheromones. And, the advantages to someone who is actually dating and socializing are obvious. Or perhaps, you might be thinking that you want in order to rekindle the flame and add some excitement to your existing relationships.
How to Have Started
Experimentation is the best way to find out what works best for you. Everyone's personal chemistry is different, and your mileage, as they say, will change. Fortunately there are a number of samplers and beginner kits available and that is where you need to begin.
Experiment and Have a Blast
Try using the same product for several days in a row and pay attention to the reactions of people around you. Test it at the recommended application level, then vary it - add some extra, don't use quite the maximum amount of. Next try another product for a while. And, most good pheromone suppliers will have plenty of information and advice in on-line boards and discussion groups.
Do they work and dark beer well worth it? Absolutely!!!
Copyright 2006 Phil Billitz
Phil Billitz - Phil is often a handwriting analyst, poet, digital photographer, technologist and addicted to Argentine Tango. To learn more about pheremone products, modern love poetry, the "Hell Trait Report", personality tests, Blog of Love, and more, go to TheLoveStroke.com - Dating and Relationship Advice.